Yup back. For realz. I've had SO much going on that I had to take a temporary vaca from the face of the Earth but I'm back and better than ever. Or at least, I have a plan to be. Its not so much that shit hit the fan or anything, its more like I just realize that I was REALLY unhappy in a lot of areas of my life. Things had to change. I had headaches all the time and had to see the dr about an ulcer-I'm 26!!!! We have the most chaotic life, so much going on and my husbands open-door policy with all his (loud) programming friends was killing me. So, I wrapped up everything I had going on in my life one week ago and made an Action-Girl plan. And now I have a week to impliment it. Then I'm going on vacation to forget about all this crap, rest up and recoup, before coming back to my (hopefully) repaired and organized life. Seriously. Anyone who thinks I cannot fix my life in one week need not comment. =)
So far:
*Having people over 24/7 is killing me. I couldn't sleep, it was driving me mad. I was seriously angry all the time at the amount of people coming over, the mess and the noise level. Action Plan: switched my bedroom to the farthest corner of the house. (Done!) Tell husbands gaming buddies they can't come over until he gets off work. Set aside people-free nights (sacred evenings). Move my studio to a finished shed in the yard. (This week!)
*Make a huge list of all the things that have been draining my energy and tackle them this week. So far I've filed, repaired things, cleaned clutter and crossed off a million to-dos. I'm on track to come home to an empty in-box.
*Budget. My budget is a MESS. I had no idea what was in and what was out and my husband and I have been fighting about it.
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*A HUGE problem for me was the noise and mess of our house. I'm working on banishing the noisy boys, fixed the toilet that was always running, made a sign for the door stating "quiet night in progress," and bought a gorgeous fountain from WaterBell Chimes for peaceful background noise when I'm home alone. I've also been turning off the phone ringer and moved the answering machine to another room where I can't hear it. Now I just check it once a day. I'm finally starting to feel more peaceful.
I still feel like I have a huge stack of books on my chest at all times but I now see light at the end of the tunnel.